One of the most common symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) is impulsivity. People with BPD tend to (but not always) struggle with impulse control. This can lead to making risky decisions and other dangerous tendencies.

Impulsiveness manifests in various ways in people with BPD. Behaviors such as reckless spending, substance abuse, binge eating, reckless driving, self-harm, or engaging in volatile relationships. Can all be commonplace. These kinds of choices only tend to compound matters and make them worse, leading to even more impulsivity and poor decision-making.

In this article we’ll look at the link between BPD and impulsivity, including how impulsivity manifests in people with BPD, the impact of impulsive behavior, the causes and triggers of impulsivity, and how to cope with treat impulsivity.

How Impulsivity Manifests In People With BPD

Impulsivity can take several forms and will manifest and present differently from person to person. Some of the most common manifestations of impulsivity in BPD include:

Impulsive Spending: People with BPD can be reckless with money, spending excessive amounts in sprees. This is often caused by emotional distress and a desire to alleviate feelings of emptiness or negativity.

Substance Abuse: Some people with BPD are prone to alcohol or drug abuse to cope with intense emotions or distressing situations. This is commonly known as self-medicating and can lead to addiction.

Self-Harm: Self-harm practices such as cutting, burning, or hitting oneself are common in people with BPD. Self-harm is typically performed during periods of intense emotional distress and can be a means to feel more in control. Self-harm can lead to infections, scars, and other physical illnesses.

Suicidal Behaviors: Impulsivity increases the risk of suicidal behaviors in individuals with BPD, particularly during periods of emotional turmoil or crisis. Impulsive suicide attempts may occur without careful consideration of the consequences, driven by intense emotional distress and a desire to escape from unbearable pain.

Impulsive Eating: Binge eating or episodes of compulsive overeating may occur as a way to cope with distress, or to fill a void.

Destructive Behavior: Destroying things like household items in sudden flashes of anger is another example of impulsive behavior.

General Reckless Behavior: This can include things like reckless driving, engaging in risky sexual practices, or participating in thrill-seeking activities with no regard for personal safety or the potential consequences of these actions.

Impulsive Decision-Making: Individuals with BPD may make impulsive decisions in various areas of life that have far-reaching consequences. This includes things such as abruptly ending a relationship, quitting a job, or moving to another location without careful consideration of the consequences.

The Impact of Impulsivity on People With BPD

The impact that impulsive behavior can have on someone with BPD is deep and far-reaching. It can affect every aspect of their life. Here are some of the biggest examples:

Relationships: Impulsive acts can hurt relationships, leading to fights, unsteady bonds, and often breakups. Trust can be broken, and close ones might find it hard to deal with the constant unpredictability.

Work and Education: At work or school, being impulsive can interfere with proper functioning, causing someone to lose their job, fail in class, or find it tough to stick to work or school tasks.

Health: Using drugs, committing self-harm and other similar actions create major health risks and raise the chance of getting hurt or facing long-term health issues.

Legal and Financial Consequences: Impulsive actions can create significant legal issues and money troubles. Stealing, cheating, or destructive acts can all be difficult for the victimized party to forgive.

Overall, the impact of impulsivity in BPD extends beyond individual symptoms and can significantly impair functioning, relationships, and overall quality of life. Impulsivity doesn’t just affect the individual, it can affect many people around them too. Addressing impulsivity is therefore a crucial aspect of treatment and management for individuals living with BPD.

Causes and Triggers of Impulsivity in BPD

Understanding the interplay between biological, environmental, and psychological factors contributing to impulsivity in BPD is essential for developing comprehensive treatment approaches that address the underlying causes and triggers of impulsive behaviors. By targeting impulsivity within the broader context of BPD, mental health professionals can help people with BPD develop more adaptive coping strategies and improve their overall functioning and quality of life.

Biological factors contributing to impulsivity

Neurochemical Imbalances: Research suggests that abnormalities in neurotransmitter systems, such as serotonin and dopamine, may contribute to impulsivity in individuals with BPD. Dysregulation of these neurotransmitters can affect decision-making processes and inhibit the ability to control impulses.

Brain Structure and Function: Studies using neuroimaging techniques have found differences in the structure and function of certain brain regions involved in impulse control, such as the prefrontal cortex and limbic system, in individuals with BPD. These differences may predispose individuals to impulsivity by affecting cognitive processes related to decision-making and emotional regulation.

Genetic Predisposition: There is evidence to suggest that genetic factors play a role in the development of impulsivity and related traits in BPD. Family and twin studies have indicated a heritable component to impulsive behaviors, although the specific genes involved have yet to be fully discovered.

Environmental and psychological triggers of impulsive behaviors

Childhood Trauma: Adverse experiences such as childhood abuse, neglect, or abandonment are common among individuals with BPD and have been linked to the development of impulsivity. Traumatic experiences can disrupt the development of self-regulatory capacities and contribute to difficulties in managing emotions and impulses.

Invalidating Environments: Environments that fail to validate or acknowledge the emotions and experiences of individuals with BPD can exacerbate impulsivity. Chronic invalidation may lead to heightened emotional reactivity and impulsive attempts to regulate intense emotions or seek validation from others.

Stressful Life Events: Stressful life events or interpersonal conflicts can trigger impulsive behaviors in individuals with BPD as a maladaptive coping mechanism. Impulsivity may serve as a means of escaping or avoiding distressing situations or overwhelming emotions.

Interaction between impulsivity and other symptoms of BPD

Emotional Dysregulation: Impulsivity often co-occurs with emotional dysregulation in BPD, as individuals may act impulsively in response to intense emotional states such as anger, sadness, or anxiety. Impulsive behaviors may serve to temporarily alleviate emotional distress or provide a sense of control.

Identity Disturbance: Impulsivity can also be influenced by difficulties in establishing and maintaining a stable sense of self. Individuals with BPD may engage in impulsive behaviors as a way to experiment with different identities or to fill a perceived emptiness or void within themselves.

Feedback Loop: Impulsivity and other symptoms of BPD can interact cyclically, with impulsive behaviors exacerbating emotional dysregulation and identity disturbance, and vice versa. This feedback loop can perpetuate maladaptive patterns of behavior and contribute to the chronicity of BPD symptoms.

Negative Consequences of Impulsive Behaviors on Mental Health and Well-Being

The impact of impulsivity on individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder extends deeply into their mental health and overall well-being:

Emotional Turmoil: Impulsive behaviors often lead to heightened emotional distress, exacerbating the already intense emotional experiences characteristic of BPD. Individuals may find themselves caught in a cycle of impulsive actions followed by feelings of guilt, shame, or regret, further intensifying their emotional struggles.

Deterioration of Self-Esteem: Impulsive behaviors can erode self-esteem, as individuals may feel ashamed or inadequate due to their inability to control their impulses. This negative self-image can perpetuate feelings of unworthiness and contribute to the sense of instability inherent in BPD.

Social Isolation: The erratic and unpredictable nature of impulsive behaviors can strain relationships with friends, family, and peers. Individuals with BPD may find themselves isolated or abandoned as others struggle to understand or cope with their impulsive actions, leading to feelings of loneliness and alienation.

Increased Vulnerability to Co-Occurring Disorders: Impulsivity in BPD often co-occurs with other mental health conditions, such as depressive disorders, anxiety disorders, or substance use disorders. The presence of impulsivity can exacerbate the symptoms of these co-occurring disorders, complicating treatment and recovery efforts.

Challenges of Impulsivity in Daily Life for Individuals with BPD

Impulsivity greatly hampers daily life and stability for people with BPD through the following ways:

Routine Disruptions: Impulsive actions can interrupt everyday routines and responsibilities. This disruption makes it hard for those affected to keep a job, continue education, or meet other commitments. The tendency toward impulsiveness may prevent them from consistently fulfilling responsibilities or sticking to plans.

Relationship Struggles: Impulsivity can cause issues within personal and professional relationships, leading to frequent conflicts with family, friends, partners, and co-workers. The unpredictable nature of such behaviors can strain relationships and foster a sense of isolation and frustration.

Economic Difficulties: Indiscriminate spending or rash financial choices can lead to instability, complicating the ability to cover necessary expenses or save money for the future. Managing finances becomes a struggle, alongside the continuous stress of financial decision-making.

Resistance to Treatment: The impulsive behavior characteristic of people with BPD can hinder their participation in therapeutic sessions or their adherence to suggested treatment paths. Regulating impulses and behaviors becomes a major challenge, making it difficult to engage in therapy or apply recommended strategies effectively.

Impulsivity affects various aspects of life for those with BPD, influencing their mental wellness, interpersonal relationships, daily activities, and overall life fulfillment. Tackling impulsivity is crucial in treating and managing BPD and requires a holistic strategy that identifies and addresses root causes while supporting the development of more positive coping mechanisms.

Effective Therapies for Managing Impulsivity

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) stands out as an effective psychotherapy tactic in managing impulsivity and other BPD symptoms. Its major components include:

Skills Instruction: DBT stresses on imparting specific skills to control impulsivity, regulate emotions, and enhance social interactions. These skills are organized into four core modules: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and interpersonal efficacy.

Cognitive-Behavioral Approaches: DBT employs cognitive-behavioral strategies to pinpoint and alter dysfunctional thoughts and behaviors that fuel impulsivity. By becoming more aware of impulsivity triggers and cultivating healthier coping mechanisms, individuals can better manage impulsive desires.

Dialectical Strategy: DBT adopts a dialectical methodology, focusing on balancing acceptance with the drive for change. Therapists collaborate with clients, validating their experiences while motivating them towards positive transformations and goal achievement.

Medication for Managing Impulsivity in BPD

While psychotherapy remains the cornerstone for treating Borderline Personality Disorder, pharmacological strategies can also be employed to address certain symptoms, like impulsivity. Medications commonly recommended for managing impulsivity in BPD include:

Mood Stabilizers: Lithium and certain anticonvulsants are often prescribed to diminish impulsivity and emotional fluctuations in BPD patients. These drugs aim to balance mood and control neurotransmitter dynamics within the brain.

Antidepressants: For symptoms of depression or anxiety accompanying impulsivity in BPD, Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs) or other types of antidepressants might be prescribed. Their effectiveness in directly combating impulsivity is more ambiguous.

Antipsychotics: To specifically address impulsive aggression or behaviors, individuals with BPD may be prescribed atypical antipsychotics. These medications work by adjusting levels of dopamine and serotonin, potentially easing agitation and impulsive actions.

Strategies for Impulse Control and Lifestyle Adjustments

Beyond medication and therapy, those with BPD can also gain from lifestyle changes and skill development for impulse management:

Mindfulness Techniques: Regular mindfulness practices, including meditation and deep breathing, can enhance awareness of one’s thought patterns, emotional states, and impulses. This heightened awareness can empower individuals to acknowledge impulses without yielding to them.

Adaptive Coping Strategies: Pursuing activities that foster relaxation and decrease stress, such as physical exercise, artistic pursuits, or nature excursions, can provide beneficial emotional outlets. Identifying and engaging in constructive activities can mitigate the drive towards impulsive actions.

Support Networks: Developing a robust network of supportive relationships with friends, and family, or participating in support groups can offer emotional support, validation, and practical advice for managing impulsivity. A strong support system can assist in overcoming obstacles and reinforce adaptive coping mechanisms.

Integrating therapy, medication, and constructive lifestyle changes enables individuals with BPD to devise practical strategies for controlling impulsivity, thereby enhancing life quality. Personalizing treatment to meet each person’s unique requirements and preferences, with continuous support and evaluation, is crucial for effectively addressing impulsivity.

Final Thoughts

Impulsivity is incredibly challenging to deal with and can harm every aspect of the sufferer’s life.

However, even with the difficulties that come from impulsive actions in BPD, there is hope. Treatment can help in dealing with impulsivity and help people with BPD gain better control over their behavior. It takes a plan, hard work, and dedication, but you don’t need to be ruled by impulsivity for the rest of your life.